Lesson-536 早已分手却还对初恋念念不忘，我该怎么办？

Lesson-536 早已分手却还对初恋念念不忘，我该怎么办？ * The first love is one that is really hard to forget. They live in your heart forever because those feelings are still lingering. Sometimes that first love can be so intense and it can result in such a fantasy of it lasting forever that people can continue to sort of harbor that fantasy long after the rational realism of their lives has shown that it's not going to ever be true. * Most of us have been (in) that moment where you know someone isn't right for you and you just keep going back and so that's literally one of those scenarios where you have to cold-turkey that relationship. This is somebody that you can't have contact with, you can't see them, you probably can't even be on social media with them, because they pull you in almost like an addiction, and so the only way to manage it is to get away. * I think when that situation exists, it's a situation that requires a lot of maturity, because it requires the people to look at each other and say, "As attracted as I am to you, as exhilarated as I might be to be with you, we're not good for each other." And they've got to use their heads more than their hearts in that situation. *