20170924小麦语录

If experience is such a great teacher,why are there so many people who have been through interesting or difficult experiences who don't seem to have learned much from them? It's not the experience alone;it's the way we decide to deal with the experience. One person who loses a job may become depressed,withdraw and blame others for his or her problems.Another may elect to go back to school,change careers,or relocate to a more prosperous area.Same experience,different results. 如果经验是一个特别棒的老师，为什么还有那么多人经历了或有趣或艰难的经历后，依然看起来没有学到些什么呢？其实重点不在于阅历本身，而是我们决定如何应对生活中的这些经历。 一个失业的人也许会变得沮丧、自我封闭，并且把自身的问题怪到别人头上。而另一个人则会决定回到学校，或者转变行业，或者重新进入一个更有前途的领域。同样的经验，不同的结果。