介绍:
中国传统婚礼中的"三书六礼"
Chinese people say "San Shu Liu Li", which means Three Letters & Six Etiquette(s), basically referring to the necessary steps people follow in traditional Chinese weddings.
First Etiquette: Na Cai. This is basically the proposal. Back in the day, when a boy or girl is at the proper age to get married, his or her family will go through a Mei Ren, a matchmaker, to negotiate.
If both families agree, they will move to the next etiquette, which is Wen Ming, Birth Date Matching.
If they do match, the third etiquette is Na Ji. The groom will confirm the marriage by giving the
bride's family the first letter Pin Shu, the Betrothal Letter.
The next etiquette is Na Zheng, more well-known as Guo Da Li, which is presenting the Wedding Gifts. In this step, the groom's family will send all the gifts to the bride's home with everything listed on the second letter Li Shu, the Gift Letter.
The fifth etiquette is called Qing Qi, Arranging the Marriage. The two families will arrange a wedding date according to Tung Shing for an auspicious date.
And finally the last etiquette Qin Ying or Ying Qin, the Wedding Ceremony. The groom will come to the bride's family to give them the last letter Ying Shu, the Wedding Letter.
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