11.25.EMF 10 Parenting Mistakes We Should Try to Avoid

If a child is secretive and lacks trust. it might be because of your excessive irritabilty. If a child is irritable and bad-tempered it might be due to a lack of attention She simply doesn't know how else to be noticed. If your child often shows envy and jealousy, it might be because you compare her too often with someone else. If your child is overly shy and indecisive, maybe it's because you try to help him with things he could cope with on his own. If your child doesn't respect others, it might be because you tell her what to do without acknowledging her feelings. If a child is rude, it might be because they're following the example of their parents or a family member. If you buy her everything she wants, but she always takes other kids' toys, it means you don't give her the right to choose. If your child lies to you, it might be because you reacted too harshly to their previous mistake. If your child can't stand up for themselves in difficult situations, it could be because you told him off in front of others. You should never do this, even in front of his siblings. Here's why it's so important to affirm a child's uniqueness and consider their wishes. You will play the violin! But I like to draw. No buts! Mom knows best what you need! 18 years later. No job! No hobbies! Why are you so passive? 我们应该尽量避免的10个育儿错误 如果你的孩子守口如瓶,缺乏信任,那可能是因为你过度易怒。 如果一个孩子脚气暴躁,可能是因为缺乏关注。她只是不知道如何才能引起别人的注意。 如果你的孩子经常表现出羨慕和嫉妒,那可能是因为你经常拿她和别人比较。 如果你的孩子过于害羞和优柔寡断,也许是因为你试图帮助他处理他自己可以处理的事情。 如果你的孩子不尊重别人,那可能是因你告诉她该做什么,没有考虑她的感受。 如果一个孩子是粗鲁的,那可能是因为他们正在效仿他们的父母或家庭成员。 如果你给她买她想要的一切,但她总是拿其他孩子的玩具,这意味着你没有给她选择的权利。 如果你的孩子对你撒谎,可能是因为之前他们犯错误时你的反应过于严厉。 如果你的孩子在困难的情况下不能自立,那可能是因为你在别人面前贬低了他。你不应该这么做,即使是在他的兄弟姐妹面前。 这就是承认孩子的独特性并考虑他们的意愿是如此重要的原因。 你应该弹小提琴!但是我喜欢画画。没有那么多“但是”!妈妈知道什么是最适合你的!18年后,没有工作,没有爱好!为什么你这么消极？