夜读英语《你生活中的人们》

《People to your life》 People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. Sometimes they die. What we must realize is that our need has been met. Our desire fulfilled. their work is done. Your need has been answered, and now it is time to move on. When people come into your life for a season. it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. 《你生活中的人们》 人们走进你的生活，或许是为了一个原因，或许是一段时间的停留，或许是一生相随。一旦明晓其中究竟，你将知道如何对待他们。 当某人因为一个原因出现在你的生命中时，通常他们满足了你的需要—帮你渡过难关，引导和支持你，在物质上、情感上、精神上帮助你。他们的出现是因为你的需 要。然后毫无缘由的或很不合时宜的，这人说了什么或者做了什么便中止了你们的情谊。有时候是他们离你而去，有时候是他们故意找茬逼得你奋起反抗，有时候则是因为他们离世。我们必须认识到，我们的需要已经被满足，我们的愿望已经实现，他们的工作也已经完成。你的需要得到了满足，现在是时候继续前行了。 有的人在你的生活中会停留一段时间，那是因为你到了个分享、成长或学习的阶段。他们让你体验平和，让你欢笑。他们可能会教给你一些你以前从没做过的事情。他们总能带给你多到难以置信的乐趣。相信这一点！这是真的！可这只能维持一段时间。 一生相随的感情教会你受益终生的道理：你必须做那些为了打造坚不可摧的感情基础而必须要做的事。你需要明白这个道理，对一生相随的人付出关爱，并将你所学到的应用到生命中的其他方面中去。爱情令人盲目，而友谊却能使你清醒。