To Those Who Think Love is a Game致爱情游戏论者

Hello everyone, today’s poem is also like a letter, a letter To Those Who Think that Love is a Game 。今天要给大家读的诗叫做 “致那些相信爱情是游戏的人们”   To those who think that love is a game   I don’t play games. And I don’t play hard to get. I don’t keep you in suspense Of fear that I will leave Out of the blue.   I don’t say what I don’t mean Just to charm you.   And I don’t keep you waiting Just so you can think that I’m too busy For you Or that I’m not always thinking of you.   Because, if I love you, And want to spend the rest of my life with you, I don’t want to make you chase me. I am tired of running.   If I love you, you will take A front-row seat In my mind, Because I respect your presence in my life As my companion. You will be my number-one priority, Not because I’m weak Or because I’m dependent on your love But because I’m a woman, Not a girl.   Love is safe. Love is vulnerable. If you want someone who will make you run after her love, Find her elsewhere. That never was And never will be Me.   I am never really good at playing games... But I have learned that playing games is a nature for wise animals and especially like us, the primate. Children learn many skills from playing games and also can have a lot of fun doing that. Nietzsche said:” In every real man there is a hidden child who wants to play. “ But Kant also said:” Never use anyone merely as a means to an end.” So, play what ever you want to play, just please do not play someone’s heart....because there is no fun in that at all.   I hope you can have a lot of fun in love when you just love, just give and receive.   Good night, sleep well, nice dreams. Read to you soon.   大家好，今天的诗是献给那些认为爱情是一种游戏的人   致爱情游戏者   我不玩游戏。 而且我也不想讨好。 我不会让你着急 害怕我会突然离开。   我不会说甜言蜜语 只为哄你开心。 我也不会故意让你久等 欲擒故纵 让你觉得自己无足轻重。   因为，如果我爱你。 我想和你共度余生。 我不想让你追求我。 我已厌倦了奔跑。 如果我爱你，你就会得到 前排座位 在我心里， 因为我尊重你在我生命中的存在 作为我的伙伴。 你将是我的第一要务， 不是因为我软弱 或者因为我依赖你的爱 而是因为我是个女人， 不是女孩。   爱是安全的。 爱是脆弱的。 如果你想要一个需要你不断追求去获得爱情的人。