介绍:
6-20麦克风
做家长尤其焦虑的原因就是，担心是没有边界的。任何时候都会有情况发生，健康、学业、社交。现在，各位家长就可以采取一些步骤，确保到时候这些头疼的问题袭来时，你已经做好了准备了。
What makes parenting especially stressful is that there are no boundaries what you should be concerned. A situation can occur at any moment, health, study or socializing. There’re steps you can take right now to make sure you’re prepared when that headache hits.
这里有三个简单的步骤记好了，倾听、询问、建议。倾听，就是了解孩子的想法和感受。询问，就是在过早下定论前获取足够的信息。最后，建议，意味着你尊重孩子的决定，并像朋友一样对待他们。如果你做不到这些，可以问问自己，当年你是孩子的时候，是何种感受。
Here are three easy steps to remember: listen, ask, and suggest. Listen, means understand what your kids are thinking and feeling. Ask, means acquire enough information before you judge too quickly. Finally, suggest means you respect your kids’ decisions and treat them as friends. If you can’t do that, ask yourself how you felt when you were a kid.
如果你的孩子惹上了麻烦，保持镇定。家长要冷静下来，去沟通，不要大声吼叫和责怪。在你的怒气消退之前，保持沉默。要获得孩子们的信任和尊敬，记住要经常练习。如果有情况发生，我们都准备好了。
If your kid is in trouble, stay calm. Parents should cool off and communicate, away from yelling and blaming. Stay silent until your rage is gone. So get your kids’ trust and respect, and remember to practice it. And if a situation happens, we’ll all be ready.
