介绍:
1. It's not the chemicals, it's your cage. We need to think about addiction diferently. Human beings have an innate need to bond and connect.
2. When we are happy and healthy, we will bond with the people around us. But when we can't-because we're traumatized, isolated, or beaten down by life, we will bond with something that
gives us some sense of relief.
3. The path out of unhealthy bonds is to form healthy bonds, to be connected to people you want to be present with. Addiction is just one symptom of the crisis of disconnection that's happening
all around us.
4. For too long, we've talked only about individual recovery from addiction. But we need now to talk about social recovery. The opposite of addiction is not sobriety; the opposite of addiction is connection.
1.不是化学药品的问题,是你的“笼子”的问题。我们需要从不同的角度来看待上瘾。人类有一种天生的需求,需要和外界建立联系。
2.当我们快乐和健康的时候,我们会和周围的人建立联系。但是当我们不快乐健康的时候因为我们受到了创伤,被孤立,或者被生活打败,我们就会和些能给我们些许解脱感的东西建立联系。
3.摆脱不健康联系的方法是建立健康的联系,与你想要与之相处的人建立联系。上瘾只是一种失去联系的危机感症状,我们每个人的身边都会发生。
4.很长一段时间以来,我们只讨论了个人从上瘾中恢复的问题。但我们现在需要谈谈整个社会的“康复”。上瘾的反义词不是清醒;上瘾的反义词是人与人之间的联系。
