介绍:
Apologizing at first takes a lot less effort (to be forgiven) than apologizing at last. So start today. Help your kids become fluent in the language of socializing and how to handle it. Because if you don’t, well, all I can say is be sure to outlive your kids.
One, teach your kids to love. It's very important that your kids understand that love comes from love, not from your power and fortune. When children harvest love from the seeds they sowed, the affections feel like an accomplishment, not an entitlement.
Lesson No. 2一let you kids grow up through their tears. They'll cry for someone or something and a week later they’ll wish they had never been so silly and naive. And as their parents, there are times you need to let them shed those tears and heal those wounds. That’s how they mature.
1.一开始就道歉远比到最后不得不道歉更容易获得原谅。就从今天开始，帮助你的孩子熟练掌握社交的语言，以及如何处理人际关系。因为如果你不这么做的话，我只能说，一定要比自己的孩子活得久。
2.第一，教会你孩子去爱。重要的是孩子要明白，爱来自爱，而不是你的权力和财富。当孩子收获自己播种的爱，这种钟爱感觉就像成就，而不是特权。
3.第二课，让你的孩子通过眼泪成长。他们会因为某些人或事哭泣，但是一周后他们就会希望自己曾经没有这么幼稚过。作为家长，有时候你需要让他们流过那些泪水并且治愈那些伤口。这是他们成熟的方式。
