8.14.EMF 妈妈，我单身但我更快乐！

我单身但我更快乐！ Studies show that single women contribute more than married women and mothers just because they have more time. So they tend to volunteer more. They spend more time with their families. They tend to be the kind of glue in a family. They can often be the glue in their social groups because they have more time. It breaks my heart to think that women are spending their 20s anxious or even their 30s. You know, it’s just… There’s so much to do, there’s so much life to be lived and partnership as we know is not a recipe for happiness. You know, divorce rates remain pretty stable. I think there’s definitely still a social expectation for women to get married and it’s a hangover from the generations that came before. Society hasn’t caught up yet to the fact that women don’t need marriage the way that they once did. Marriage is now an option, not a necessity. 研究表明，单身女性比已婚女性或妈妈们做出的贡献更多，因为他们有更多的时间。所以单身女性更主动、志愿去做更多的事，他们有更多的时间陪伴自己的家人，他们是家庭的粘合剂。因为他们有更多的时间，所以他们往往会成为社会群体的粘合剂。 一想到那些在20多岁甚至30多岁时就焦虑不安的女性，我就心痛。这有很多事情要做，有很多生活要过。正如我们所知，伙伴关系并不是快乐的秘诀。你知道，离婚率一直都很稳定。我认为，社会对女性结婚的期望仍然存在，这是前几代人留下的后遗症。社会还没有意识到这一事实——女性不再像以前一样需要婚姻。现在婚姻是一种选择，而不是必须品。